Tuesday, June 15, 2010

HE (we) DID IT!

When you have an MBA, you can make money appear out of thin air.

On Saturday, June 12th, Spencer graduated with his Masters in Business Administration from University of Chicago Booth School of Business.  This has been an incredibly rich time in Spencer's, and subsequently our lives.  While at Booth Spencer has had so many opportunities and experiences and has grown to understand his capabilities and priorities to entirely new depths.  It has been fascinating (albeit exhausting, at times) to watch him go through this intense period of self-improvement/strengthening.  I can honestly say that this was like the refiner's fire, and he has come out a much improved piece of silver!

Yeah, I guess you could say in a way I earned my MBA, too.  I at least deserved a cap 'n gown, if not the diploma.
I have more to say, but since I so recently gushed about him, and seeing as how Father's Day is coming up and I may have more to say, I'll spare all y'all.
We figure that in a few years, when we start to look old-timey, people will probably make posters and postcards and mugs with this image on it.  "Endress Ruv..."

Although I will say this:  HONORS, BABY!  It's all about those golden cords. 

How did he do that?  Seriously, I'm a little perplexed.  I mean, Chicago Booth has this awesome policy called "grade nondisclosure", meaning that you cannot disclose your grades to perspective employers--how awesome is that?  So technically, every class is pass/fail.  Would you be able to pull off honors with that lack of incentive?  Especially considering that you participated in many many many social networking events (every other wife would agree that he is probably the one who attend the most "networking" events), had a sick (pregnant) wife for half the year and for half of the first and half of the second year had a newborn.  You got up in the morning to get the kids fed and changed, etc, you took advantage fully of the incredible city you were living in....  um, I don't think I could.  And I am still trying to understand it. 

Oops, I guess I got caught up gushing.   Sorry.  But then again, this is a blog in his honor.  Anyway, I am SOOOO proud of him.  It was awfully fun watching him graduate. 

This could be any old goon crossing the stage, but it happens to be Spencer.  Eryn and I screamed for him but she was holding Layla and I was taking the picture, so no clapping.  The screaming seemed a little lonely when unaccompanied by applause.

 I think it was partly so exciting for me because I got to be there for each and every part of the process-- planning ahead in undergrad, researching schools, working his networks at Accenture, studying for, taking, and spanking the GMAT, applications (oh, kill me if I ever have to live through that bleep again), falling in love with U of Chicago, waiting, waiting, waiting, receiving the acceptance, moving out here, and stepping into our future....

Scott and Eryn, some of our very wonderfully wonderful B-school friends.  They made it, too.   Don't feel left out if you did (or didn't) make it and you are not pictured here.  I was sad that there were so many of my B-school friends that I didn't get to see that night (including the ones that should've been there but decided to stick around an extra year instead).  Also, just to be clear, don't feel bad if you are not a B-school friend.  I still love you, too.  Also, don't feel bad if you are Eryn and I just totally down-played our relationship.  It's special :)  As is this picture (below) of my Graduate:

And now we are stepping out of this chapter of our lives and into the next (with a 5 week interlude to the Western States).  To Infinity (or Arkansas) and Beyond!  May the force be with you all.


 (don't worry Elisabeth, he is not Luke's father).

8 comments:

tracyann said...

Congrats to your family. He didn't do it alone, Mardee. So happy for you all!

Andrea said...

Yeah, what up with the whole wives not earning honorary degrees? I'm bitter about it. Absolutely bitter. It's why I refuse to go back to school (that, and I have children to raise).

I didn't get to go to my husband's grad school graduation. I found out I was pregnant just a few days before it, and was too sick to travel (he was commuting to Montana). His mom recorded it for me, but for some reason I didn't ever watch it until about a year ago. I just sat and bawled through it. Even five years after the fact.

It is a HUGE accomplishment. Way to go, Spencer and Mardee and girls!

Spencer said...

I just want to thank you (Mardee) for being such a stellar support during this period in which you had to sacrifice the most. Through the "refiner's fire" (as you called it) you have really been put to the test and have certainly come out on top. One reason why I felt weird (for once) being in the spotlight and haven't wanted to make a big deal of my graduation (thanks for dashing those hopes ;) ) is that it has been far from a solitary effort, so donning fanciful clothing and pretentiously parading around hardly seem representative of how the degree was achieved.

I love you woman. You are my Abigail Adams.

Secondly, I'd like to shout out to all my friends from the U of C... Thanks for making this such an incredible experience, and for all the support. I could not have made it through a pregnancy, two newborns, a trip to India and Househunting without Mardee's awesome social support group here in Chicago. You guys (and ladies) will be missed dearly.

Melissa said...

Way to go, Spencer!

I can't believe it's been two years. And way to go marred you got your pht.

That means putting hubby through.

:)

chickadee3357 said...

Rock on Clive family!! You went from a little family to a big one and got a Master's too. Amazing what a few years does. Keep up the gushing...we should all gush about our spouses, there would be less divorces. The problem is when we don't gush and we read other's gushes and say "Why doesn't my spouse do that."

The United Statements of Merica said...

I am so proud of you guys!! I totally get mardee's accomplishment and I'm astounded.. But you do diserve some serious props spencer for being super dad/husband through all of it! thanks for not making me worry about my little sister. You guys look great by the way, and I'm sooo excited to see you next week. please please please.

Katie said...

Fun post! Way to go. Have fun in Arkansas!

Rachel Johnson said...

Congrats Spencer and Mardee! How wonderful to accomplished such a feat! Way to go, you guys are truly amazing and we look forward to keeping in touch and someday being able to see you again! Way to go!